Thanx Ashleajayne,,,,
I should explain more, I am being presured to start medical treatment for RA which entails taking a drug which is low dose Chemo. to do this means that I will wreck any chances of having another baby in the next 2 years because of treatment. so I have a choice of go back in the next few months OR wait maybe 3-5 years and by then I will be in my 40yrs. Not that being in my 40's is a problem ..Im just not sure how my body would cope being pregnant after the treatment. The treatment is an ongoing thing so once I start i have to continue.. (only taking a BREAK after i have established a good base).