Ok This is not should I have another baby type of question as I already know I want one... BHL was ok with it but now that we are getting closer to the time that I thought we would be starting to TTC ( april 09 ) he is trying to wiggle out of it... He is happy with the 3 we have as am I but I still have a felling that I am not done yet... Plus DD2 is so clingy and such the " baby ' of the family she just cant be the last... if she was she would live with us until she is 40....

Anyway BHL is worried about whats happening with the world $$$ ATM he is in the mines and worries that if it all goes belly up then we would be left standing with 4 winkies and no jobs... I am not skilled in anything so would only be getting a check out chick job once winkies are grown....

So is it been silly to keep going on with the plan to have another when you are un-sure about future imployment? Or do you keep going on as if nothing has changed and just see what happen if and when the ***** hits the fan....

BTW BHL is very skilled as he is a fitter, aircon fixer ( LOL cant think for the life of me the proper name ) electrition ( sp? ) and he is Ex navy ( which they would always take back as he is high up and knows what he is doing) So I have in my mind even if mining goes under and he cant get another job he has heaps to fall back onto so we should just steam ahead....

I told him that even if we dont TTC yet I still and always will want another that the need want just go away next year or the year after.... So as we are only 29 I know we have still have heaps of time, but I already feel like I am getting too old to have another let alone waiting a few more years...

sorry for all the rambling thanks for reading if you got though it all....