Thanks Ladies for your responses, makes me feel somewhat better.

Rick has an underactive thyroid gland and is on meds for this. We found out after having Lachlan that the meds he is on causes infertility in quite a high % of people who take them, especially since he has taken them since he was 17 and has to take them for the rest of his life, and is on quite a high dosage.

I guess that another (prob the main reason) why ive freaked out.

But im glad to hear how "normal" it is to ttc for up to 2 yrs before conceiving, makes me feel "normal" iykwim

I think what we will prob do, is when we start ttc (whenever that'll be) after 6months if nothing at all, we will seek med advice, prehaps get Rick checked out.

Im feeling much more confident with reading your replies, thankyou