Can I be a mum to three kids?
Of Course you can!

Can I go back to sleepless nights?
You will because you have too - at least you will have no delusions about it, and you never know, your baby could be a sleeper.

Will our house fit 3 kids (it's a smallish house)?
We have a small 3 bedroom house, I am pregnant with my fourth. Kids can easily shar rooms, especially when small. I am one of six and shared a bedroom with at least one sibling my until I moved out. My mum was one of six and grew up three kids to a bedroom. It can teach you some invaluable skills.

And worst comes to worst, you can always look at upgrading later in the game as the kids get a bit bigger.

Can we afford 3 kids?
Well, only you know this or not. But in my experience, three kids doesn't really cost much more then two.

After trying to talk DH around for the last 19 months I am sitting here having second thoughts and I'm not sure we should. Have I just been talking about having another baby because I knew DH wouldn't?
Or am I just having second thoughts/nerves?
How do I know which one it is?
TIA!!
No-one can answer this one for you. But I woould like to reassure you that I have had similar thoughts ever since I decided to start TTC for my first child, and then repeatedly at different stages through TTC, pregnancies and even after bring bubs home. I do think it is normal to start questioning yourself about these things and second guess yourself. It is a BIG thing to have a child, it isn't like bringing a kitten home. If yoou weren't questioning yourself at all, I think that would be abnormal.


Sending you lots of baby dust! Good luck TTC!!!