Welcome! And don't lose hope. It's frustrating but it can take a while- for some women it won't take long at all after coming off the pill but for others it takes a long time. This can include naughty irregular or surprising cycles. It took DH and I about 19 months to make our DD, prior to that I'd been on the pill off and on for about 8-9 years. Are you charting in any way to pinpoint ovulation? Ie monitoring changes in your cervical fluids, temping or using OPKs? These can help. If you're not certain you ovulated already I'd be taking your doc's advice and baby dancing until AF or ovulation arrives!