Just thought id pop in and see how everyones going.

Amanda.. have you tested yet?
Im going to hold off until Thursday when AF is due. If she aint here by Friday, i may test then. Not getting any hopes up though.

Miklaoz.. Welcome! Best of luck with trying for your boy! I dont know myself how safe douching is. But yes Baking Soda and Bicarb Soda are the same thing. I think some tips for a boy are the man should wear boxer shorts and loose trousers. Find out when ovulation is. Dont DTD for 1 week prior. DTD when you ovulate just once.. with the woman orgasiming before the man if possible. Also the man can have cold showers (i bet he'll like that!) or hold a cold washer to his genitals.