Sassy123, I know what you mean. You are always hearing about gals who accidently fall pg, sometimes against all odds, and yet with all the charting, temping, obsessing and bd'ing the rest of us do and still it takes ages!!!

I like to think that each bub is born when it needs to be born, and its just a matter of it showing up at the right time. Maybe the cutest bub in the world is 6 eggs away, so I just have to be patient and wait till he/she is ready to be born! It helps me to think of it in these terms rather than like I am creating something with a chemistry set...!