catrionalee, I know where your at right now and I think its the toughest wait of all waiting for your partner to come around. I honestly thought it would never happen, I thought he would never change his mind, but I wasn't going to give up without trying everything I could. But I had to learn to not bug him about it all the time. Instead I quietly started to find solutions for all his concerns, and it certainly helped that all his friends who are much younger were having babies and they started to push him as well. There is NO WAY I could wait 3 years either!, I don't even want to wait another month. But now that I know he is happy to begin the preparation for TTC, I am feeling so much better, now I just cant wait and the thought of it makes me the happiest I think I have ever been EVER!
Good luck, and hang in there, vent with us here so you dont feel tempted to go home and bug him about it cause it will only slow the process down.
Thanks for the baby dust! I am sending you bucket fulls of the stuff right now!....