MUM2BXX - Thanks for your feedback on IVF. Could you briefly explain the process involved and why you chose IVF over VR? My husband is 42 and I am 34 perhaps we are better suited to the IVF process. Also roughly what's the cost involved and could you recommend anyone in particular? Sorry for asking you athousand questions. i am genuinely happy for you but a little sad for us. he had the V done long before we met and even though he told me straight up I cannot help but feel so sad about the whole thing.