Thanks guys, was I was very emotional while reading your responses. I was hoping to hold out till at least the weekend, but wasn't sure if that was still too early.

Also, I've just moved back to AUS after living in the States for 6 years - is there a brand of test you would recommend? Can you get 'first response' in AUS? Might pick up something tomorrow and test on Sat am (DPO 12) if temps are still high.

Thanks again for your support!! Now have to pull it together again before DH gets home...