Thanks. Last night I had pretty much resigned myself to the fact that this month wasn't to be, considering Satya's comment, but I had another high temp today. Should I test tomorrow???
For sure. If you get another high temp tomorrow test away. If it's still high you are very likely to get a positive HPT. Good luck tomorrow.
Sorry to have put a negative spin on it yesterday, but I know only too well how easy it is to get excited too early. It took me 14 years to hae my son and countless amounts of two week waits - many where I thought things looked promising only for the temp to drop the next day. Just trying to balance things out a little for you.
Good idea Satya. Nothing worse than people telling you what you want to hear then getting a BFN (not that I've been in your shoes and had too many of them thankfully).
But, the countdown is on Bub4Me. Look forward to seeing your result tomorrow.....
Satya- I understand. I wasn't particularly upset last night, just disappointed since I have been feeling (touch wood) like this was the closest we've been. Deciding it wasn't to be this month is a silly subconcsious reaction so that I don't get my hopes up too. Sometimes I don't have much confidence in myself when it comes to the charting, so thought you had a more experienced, realistic (since we've been TTC for so long) preception. Since we've had so much trouble, I was sure yours was the obvious answer.
We have been TTC#1 4 years and it hasn't (as I'm sure you can understand) been easy for me, particularly watching everyone else around me look at each other and get pregnant. I appreciate your concern for balance, and thank you for posting again today.
Well, I bought a clearblue digital test on my way home this afternoon, so will see how the temp is in the morning. Ooh, I wish I could test now. Going out tonight with DH, my brother and his girlfriend, so will hopefully get my mind off temps for a while. I must say, I was VERY happy to get another high temp today...
So I woke up this morning excited to temp and to test. Temp was down slightly, but I didn't think it was too dramatic. Tested and saw the painful BFN staring back at me. In reality, I don't think this is the month for me.
I'm a bit confused tho', becuase I didn't realise till late last night, but the program that I use to chart sent me the Triphasic message yesterday. With today's temp the triphasic is still there. I put in some dummy temps for tomorrow, and if your temp drops way down the triphasic message goes away, so technically the program still thinks I have a triphasic chart (so far). Are there any other causes for a triphasic pattern other than pregnancy? I didn't think there was.
I'm trying very hard to just enjoy the beautiful day and let what's going to happen happen. There's nothing I can do now but just wait, but it's hard, am having a rough day. DH is taking me to a cafe for lunch then we're going to spend the afternoon in the park since Brissie is having gorgeous weather today, so hopefully that will help me to relax.
Let me know what you think, but I've pretty much realised it isn't happening for me this month
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