Right heres the story guys....


Alexa is now 7 months old, after a short pregnancy (she was 7 1/2 weeks prem), we arrived home & all was lovely, till I had Stepson #1 literally dumped on our doorstep by Dh/s ex....

to cut a long story short, I now have DD & SDS living with me, Dh is working out of town from sun-fri night & things are pretty crazy... Ideally i would like DD to have a sibling close in age, but it really does not seem like a possibilty at this stage & it is quite depressing... reasons are...

* Our house is not big enough for another child, DD is in a sun room that is not big whough to share with Bub # 2.... but to build another will be a long way off & more $$$$

* I will now have to work longer to ger some finance behind us (all savings were used when i was on maternity leave, I am now back working fulltime)..

* I dont know how I will cope as SDS has ADD & can be pretty trying at times...


Any suggestions or opinions appreciated or tell me your story.....

ok so maybe that wasnt so short.... Sorry...