My bat cave must be a bit smaller at times

When checking my cervix TTC DD, I used my middle finger but there were times when a bit more finger length wouldn't have gone astray. PMSL.

I can't remember exactly what the fertile signs are for your cervix (Fertility Friend has some good info) but it's good to note when your cervix is high (so untouchable would be high!), soft, low, firm, closed and open. I might have this wrong but I'm sure I read somewhere that your cervix feels a bit like a head of a penis (man I hope I just didn't make that up!!!) and when it's 'open' you can feel a teeny, tiny opening and the whole thing is sort of rounded - sometimes soft and squishy, sometimes firm. Maybe that was my analogy after feeling it. Going off to hide now!