Hey babe, Sorry to hear that you have had a rough trott. I can empathize with you on that one! I would suggest that you try to get a bit more relaxed before the 'main event' whether that be a bit more foreplay (as Traveller mentioned) or just try to relax a bit more. Also sometimes if things get a bit hot and heavy and you havent been active for a while you can graze the perineum if your partner goes in and out very quickly, Also another thing about being very wet - When the vagina is grazed, cut or has an infection it will weep a discharge of some sort. I would suggest to keep track of the color and texture of the discharge as if it goes thick yellow/green in color and smells very bad that can be the sign of an infection and you will need to see your GP asap! But in saying that it may just be something as simple as a small graze or just a tenderness. Maybe you could try some lubricant or massage your perineum before having sex next time if your not keen on the foreplay. Take care. xx