Thanks Ladies. I sent DP to the chemist for lube to see if that works. We didnt even attempt it last night so im not sure what it is. I think might be a graze or small cut cause there is no weeping or anything but still hurts a little when going to the toilet. I need a switch for my brain to stop thinking. Poor DP must be starting to think im a headcase cause I keep burtsing into tears mid DTD. I will see how my baby making weekend in Whitsundays goes. Hope its not too painful. Hope I get a result this month.