Weird Sensation!! Can anyone help?

[Beautiful Disaster]

Ok so last night I caved and DTD with DP after about 4 weeks of trying to pull myself together. Been a bit all over the shop.

IT HURT LIKE HELL!!! It felt as though there was a cut or something that was stinging and i dont know what it is. It didnt feel like it was internal but on the outisde at the base near you bottom. Now this morning I feel all wet and uncomforable.

Is this something I should be seeing a Dr about or is it just my body telling me that it has been too long and it getting back in the routine.

Its going to be 1 long week od BD if its going to be like this every time.

Hope someone can help me.

Kylz

[Traveller]

I have had this before, and the more I dreaded the sensation the worse it was. I think I was just tense and putting too much emphasis on "the task" of intercourse and not enough on lovemaking, so my suggestion to you (which worked for me) is buy a lube/massage gel (durex do a nice 2 in 1) and have lots of fun. Concentrate on the foreplay and not the actual intercourse and you will most likely find sex just happens and is a lot more pleasurable.

[natwantsababy]

Hey babe, Sorry to hear that you have had a rough trott. I can empathize with you on that one! I would suggest that you try to get a bit more relaxed before the 'main event' whether that be a bit more foreplay (as Traveller mentioned) or just try to relax a bit more. Also sometimes if things get a bit hot and heavy and you havent been active for a while you can graze the perineum if your partner goes in and out very quickly, Also another thing about being very wet - When the vagina is grazed, cut or has an infection it will weep a discharge of some sort. I would suggest to keep track of the color and texture of the discharge as if it goes thick yellow/green in color and smells very bad that can be the sign of an infection and you will need to see your GP asap! But in saying that it may just be something as simple as a small graze or just a tenderness. Maybe you could try some lubricant or massage your perineum before having sex next time if your not keen on the foreplay. Take care. xx

[Beautiful Disaster]

Thanks Ladies. I sent DP to the chemist for lube to see if that works. We didnt even attempt it last night so im not sure what it is. I think might be a graze or small cut cause there is no weeping or anything but still hurts a little when going to the toilet. I need a switch for my brain to stop thinking. Poor DP must be starting to think im a headcase cause I keep burtsing into tears mid DTD. I will see how my baby making weekend in Whitsundays goes. Hope its not too painful. Hope I get a result this month.