Aww you are all so sweet. Thankyou xxxx (now I have tears again, damn you girls hahaha.)

And AF did arrive yesterday right on cue.

shell and mbear- No he hasn't had his swimmers checked yet, but that is the next thing on the list now that it has been a year.

I have FINALLY decided (after thinking a long time about what to do) to go and see my obstetrician/gyno and have a chat with him. He can do all the necassary tests, and I trust him to refer us to someone good. The FS my friend gave me is very good, but he is about 40-50min away from here, so it would be good to have somewhere a bit closer. Anyway, I will call him today and make an appointment.

Thankyou so much again everyone. It really helps having the support. And those of you also TTC, keep your chins up. It WILL happen for you too xxx