I know it takes a little while after birth/loss for AF to come back, but when should I get worried about "her" not coming? It's been 9 weeks since Ianto was born, and I think I O'd a couple of weeks ago (I got what I think was EWM), but nothing else has happened since. I've already done two HPTs, both negative, so I'm fairly certain I'm not pregnant yet.

I usually have very irregular periods, sometimes having a few months of the being normal, and sometimes with up to 6 or so months in between. I've never been given a reason for this, no matter how many doctors I mention it to.

Again, I'm not saying I'm worried right now that AF hasn't shown up, but I think soon I might start getting panicky about it. So could someone give me an estimate of when it turns from "it's alright, your body's just getting back to normal" to "get to the doctor, there's potentially something wrong"? Should I be worried already that it's been nine weeks without any sign of her coming?