with Kat and jess, the cramps were bad for me. But by week 9 or ten, they'd cleared up. I remember when pg with jess, I was cramping one day when I was out.....the pain was so bad I raced to the loo (not easily done with a pram) to check cause it felt like it did when I m/c a number of yrs ago....bad cramps. But no blood so all was good. Having said that.....pain is different to everyone so it's purely a subjective thing. FIngers crossed u get ur BFP soon!!!