thread: Why oh why am I feeling like this?

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  1. #1
    Registered User

    Dec 2007
    Geelong
    3,438

    I hope it doesn't take too long to make this decision, I don't have a lot of time on my hands . It's just made me so confused as I was so very sure our family was done.

    Regards,
    Dianne

  2. #2
    Registered User

    Jun 2007
    Forster NSW
    1,444

    Hmmm it's not an easy decision to make, but go with your heart. Maybe 'leave it to nature'.... Have some Valentines Day fun and just let things ride out. If its meant to be then it might just happen sooner rather than later.

    I always worry I am never going to 'feel finished'.... I think DH will be quick to remind me when we are though!!! hehehe

    GL with it all, what ever you choose.

  3. #3
    Registered User

    Feb 2006
    Newcastle, NSW
    4,219

    Oh honey... I wish I had some answers for you but I am in the same boat myself.
    DH & I both agreed that 4 was our number... then DH says to me the other day how he'd love to have 1 or 2 more, and I think the same thing! I am just kinda hoping the feeling leaves me soon as I know 4 is definitely the number for me.

    Wishing you all the very best no matter what path you find yourself on

  4. #4
    BellyBelly Member

    Oct 2008
    3,132

    No advice for you but loads of empathy - I go from being sure we are done to desperately wanting one more on a daily basis. Our other 3 are really close together so if we have another one I don't want them to be heaps younger so I feel like it is a decision I have to make soon.

    I wish the answer was easy ...