OKAY.

So this month was not to be it. DH not "up" to the task when the timing was right.
and this next month - guess what - oh yes, DH will not even be in the country!!!!
Came home last night to tell me that he has to go to Singapore for work and yep, when does he have to go. YES - you guessed it - right at the optimal time for my cycle!!! AARRRHHH!!!

WELL, WHAT WOULD YOU LADIES DO????

Option 1 - Leave the country and leave the kids at grandmas and grandpas at go and have a few hot nights with DH in Singapore IFKWIM - telling your parents you and DH really need a break!!! (well, it is true that we have not had a proper holiday for a very long time!!!!)

Option 2 - forget about it this month!!! (yes, there will be the month after and the month after that, but hey - I am no spring chicken and he is even less of one!!!! so, we really need to get cracking)

Option 3 - can anyone tell me if there are any other options?
(so, how long do they survive in the freezer????????)

Will we ever get this TTC#3 thing off the ground???????

WHAT WOULD YOU DO?