Thanks for finding that info Mrs B26. I find if I don't keep a sense of humour about this TTC thing I am going to go completely batty. We all need a good laugh!!!

Seriously though, leaning more towards option 2 ATM. Never left the kids overnight before and DD is at that age where she is starting to become a springboard at bedtime. Plus after a few days at grandmas, I know they will be a bit unbearable when they get home - more in your face and demanding after having 2 old people absolutely doting on them.

Can't say I wouldn't like a break. Option 1 wouldn't actually cost much because we have some credit points to use for the fare, free accomodation and food is cheap in singapore, and yes, I can get enjoyment out of window shopping (yeah, right!!!). DH will be exhausted by long days and schmoozing with clients. He kinda likes the idea of not telling his colleagues or clients that I am there, and sneaking around - a little bit of extra spice IYKWIM. (We will have to arrive separately anyway as I am unlikley to be able to get a good flight using points.)

Other options I am considering are mediating in a dark room for an hour every morning and night, channelling positive energy to make the little eggy pop out a little earlier so we can DTD before DH flies out. Well, you never know.

[Seriously though, we had a lot of trouble concieving number 2 and drs pushing us into fertility treatment. We both decided long ago that this stress would be too much for us and we won't go down this path if it does not just happen. I really admire the strength of those who can.]

WISHING YOU LUCK FOR THE BFP!!!!!!!!!!!