We were going to utilise the gender selection option with our embies, to make sure we had a girl - because dh has ADD and is more prevalent in males (all 3 of his sons have it), because of my age we would have been at blast stage for implant & was being done anyway to check for other s3x related issues.

We'd also discussed the options if we found our child had any other issues identified during scans & I had said that we'd still go for late stage abortion if we had to at 20 weeks.