DD has seen my pads and tampons and knows what they're for. We recently also went shopping for her own to go in her room if she needs them. It will most likely be the same for DS as he gets older and sees them too, as I think boys should know at least the basics of menstruation and that it's normal.

As for access to condoms - I like the idea of having them available in the bathroom. Not sure how old DD will be when I start buying them, we've already talked about sex and safe sex a little bit, as much as she was interested in at the time. I think probably around 15-16, unless she asks earlier (dear god I hope not!). I do recall the rather funny and embarrassing moment when telling ex-DSS (14 at the time) that I was pregnant with DD - he walked into his bedroom, came out with his wallet and handed his father a condom and said "here Dad, shoulda used one of these!"