Yeah i do get very annoyed at my mum for telling me as well. A few weeks ago i went to mums during my work lunch break as my sister was there, i go mainly to see my neices. And later when i spoke to mum she said that my sis mentioned that the dress i was wearing didn't suit me/didn't look good on me. I luv that dress its so comfortable (suit dress, nice cut) and that very day i had workmates complement me on it!! Arrghhhhhh.... Now i haven't worn the dress again cos i think of what she said (although it was behind my back)
Its good to get everyone's opinions cos i now know that ive been too nice in not telling her off.
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). I guess if you can work out in your own mind what level of respect/support you expect from them, all you can do is ask for them to respect this (easier said than done sometimes). It is possible, (as already mentioned in this thread), that they don't realise how hurtful their comments are or how often they're making them. If the situation doesn't change, if they don't change, even after you've explained, you can't control them. All you can do is work out what you're willing to tolerate. It really sounds like your sister might not have resolved all her issues with food/weight/body image etc and is subjecting you to her stuff. 
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