I have to agree with Cricket.

I'm wondering if the statement was worded a bit incorrectly and what Girl22 actually meant was that she can understand what it's like to have a few issues with weight after pregnancy because she has been there, done that, but can't understand what it's like to struggle with weight in general because she hasn't had to before. Does that make sense??

Girl22 - I would follow Leasha's advice and look at your BMI rather than comparing. I have 6 sisters and 5 of us pretty much look the same weight and can fit the same size clothes but our actual weights range between 50 and 60 kg.