Girl22, I think you should have phrased your op saying you were just curious and then the whole thing might have made a little more sense.Apart from the comments that followed which just didn't make any sense to me.

I really don't think making snide remarks about Admin is the most mature thing to do, after all they are just doing there job and trying to defuse the situation.

I have found your comments to me to be rather condescending.All I have wanted to know was the reason for you wanting to know.All you had to do was say you were just curious to begin with.I feel, seeing as I posted to your original question that I at least deserved that without being spoken to in that way.

I'm going to bow out of this now as I don't think it's doing me or anyone else any good by continuing.