I'm really surprised that South Eastern don't have rules about BMI. All public hospitals do. Most public hospitals will not take the risk and you have to go to a hospital that can take the high risk births. It's my understanding that very few private hospitals have the facilities to handle high risk births. They wont tell you this though - they will just transfer you to a public one when things go wrong.

Have you tried cutting out trans fats from your diet? I did this after many years of not getting pregnant. I've been investigated for PCOS twice but they don't reckon I have it, just some of the symptoms. They couldn't find any reason for my infertility. I started to fall pregnant 2 or 3 months after I cut trans fats out of my diet. I didn't lose any weight but I did start getting pregnant and that's what I wanted more than anything else.