The past 4wks I have been on a diet and i was worried about dinner time, as obviously my girls don't need to diet LOL
I have cut out carbs, we used to have alot of pasta dinners, i mean nearly every night! and the girls love pasta! Their favourite being Spag bog! so if i am cooking that than they have theirs with pasta, i have mine with salad and no pasta.
In this case my girls are pretty good with their vegies but i hate them, so if they are having chicken, mash and vegies i will have chicken and salad.
If they are having sausages i will opt for a small piece of steak (less fatty).

Umm not sure if that will help you much, you could try hiding the vegies by grating them into things like spag bog, you can grate carrot, zucchini, even broccoli and you can hardly taste it. Zucchini slice is even a nice healthy yummy option that your girls might like? My little secret with vegies too if it is something they don't like, is tomato sauce LOL DD2 is the fussy eater around here but if it has tomato sauce she can dunk it in she will eat just about anything