Thanks Ladies.

I think the hardest thing when it comes to eating with my girls is I can never be sure that will like it just because they liked it last time. I swear they are phobic of trying anything new (thats DD1's personality anyhow)

I used to be the same in giving them something healthy if they didnt want dinner now I dont offer them anything else. They started doing the same as your Ds, 3lm. So then I would just cook a normal dinner and if they didnt eat, well bad luck. But what I've noticed is that my range of recipes has decreased over time and now I am only making the set range of dinners that have average success rates.

Dinner stresses me out, I hate that they waste food just, I resent spending ages in the kitchen cooking a meal (which they have asked for), being nagged about being hungry and when is dinner for them not to eat anything.
Maybe I should have put this thread in the baby and toddler section, but I really really really want to get healthy, I want to get skinny, I want to eat the foods I love without the stress of non eating kids.

Im even resenting them for my lack of timme to exercise at the moment...