.... Come live with me, Divvy!!! I'll pay you!!!

When DP is home (he usually works 10 days on, 4 days off. Sometimes a day off here and there), the house is a nightmare. I mean, geez, he was home for half a day the other week and it took me 2 days to get the house back to normal.
I just can't do housework when he's around cause he wants to cuddle or play PS3 with me or something.

I usually do housework when DD goes for her morning nap, which is anywhere between 7am-9.30am and she sleeps 1-3 hours.

I get a hell of alot of work done in that time. I can even put tea in the slow cooker.

Get a roster. Thats what helped me.