I have to agree with Rory - while I would love to be a stay at home parent, I don't have kids! But I do know that when I was a uni student and DH was supporting us, I would go barmy if I was home all the time. And I don't think kids will make it easier.

ATM, I hate work and would happily resign to do the Domestic Goddess thing, but that's because I feel like I need to take time to make space for the kids that are coming to us, IYKWIM? OK, it's very "The Secret", but there's so much going on in my life atm that I don't think there's room for a baby until I sort myself out. And I need Domestic Goddess time to do that