Joy! telling people is a really personal decision. If you do decide to tell people then mention to them that this is a really personal thing and you would appreciate that they didn't discuss it with others. if and when you fall pg using donor sperm there will be time to tell those you want to tell. i take the perspective like Tarkine that I want those i care about to know but I can't really control who they tell, I just trust their own judgement. I haven't told colleagues because I don't think it has anything to do with them. i hope you find it helpful in here

hi to all,
blizz, tarkine big to you two

lulu, lissie in lurking preparation land i am thinking of you both and am ready to cheer you on anytime you want/need it.

gargy, hope you had a great holiday break.

nothing to report here. still PUPO but no symptoms, BT is this week - 3 more sleeps. My sister dreamt I had a BFP but not sure how she would know more than me at this stage.

No evil POAS here. I want a definitive answer.
xx