with Paige we did 10 try's at IUI with an unproven donor at this point my nephew was born with cystic fybrosis and my family were all tested I tested as a carrier of the CF gene along with one of my four brothers (father to my nephew) and since there were no records of whether my donor had been tested we decided to lessen the risk and switch donors,
The clinic must have decided that because we had been mucked around with an unproven donor that they would offer us ICSI on our first IVF treatment free of charge so I had 20 eggs collected (yes I was very uncomfortable) and of these 12 fertilised through ICSI
I had one fresh transfer put in and this didn't take and Paige was the result of our 1st FET.

we started trying again when Paige was 11mths old I had to wait for AF to return and stabilise after BF, we had been slowly whittling our way though our remaining 10 embryos and now have three remaining in storage.
It did seem to take us a lot longer the second time around we also had a miscarriage in Nov last year.
but everybody is different so I'll be hoping that you have my first experience and your next try will be the lucky one.
with love from Allie xxxxxx