KNow how you feel about feeling a failure Lis. But we have to know that we're not. But its hard, thats for sure - especially when there are so many just sneezing and falling pg.

As for donor embryos I have had no experience in this but know had we had any success we would have donated any 'extra' embryos that we had. So Im sure there are clinics out there with ones available. My bet would be checking with each of them a) whether they have any now? and b) if they dont what sort of wait can you expect?