Young single female considering sperm donation

[*Ash*]

yes but its not appreciated for people to tell me or any other woman to wait because they don't have a clue what its like to suffering with this situation especially when theres no partner around.

Laura, I think it's fine for you to say that you don't want someone telling YOU to wait, but curlygirly was addressing the OP. She was not directly addressing you. I believe it is unfair of you to criticise her contribution when she was merely providing her opinion- which is what the OP asked for.

[LizLemon]

The simple fact is that deciding to have a child affects both you and the child, and it is a good idea to consider all the factors and whether or not it will be the best option for both. One of my best friends had a child through this method and while she knew it would be a tough slog, I don't think she had any idea of the complex issues that would come about once the child was born. If some of the ladies on this forum are here to offer some advice from either a two-parent or single parent standpoint, then it certainly can't hurt to take on all that advice prior to making the biggest decision you will ever make. It is not judgement, it is simply offering a different perspective.

[Phteven]

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