yes but its not appreciated for people to tell me or any other woman to wait because they don't have a clue what its like to suffering with this situation especially when theres no partner around.
Laura, I think it's fine for you to say that you don't want someone telling YOU to wait, but curlygirly was addressing the OP. She was not directly addressing you. I believe it is unfair of you to criticise her contribution when she was merely providing her opinion- which is what the OP asked for.