But if that's the case then I think she should have said that direct deposit was her preferred payment method, I would have been more than happy with that. Especially if I knew it meant I'd get the item faster. I used Paypal because I thought that's what she wanted.
Unfortunately seller's aren't allowed to say they prefer methods other than PayPal anymore . They have no choice but to accept PayPal and aren't allowed to say they won't accept it or their listing will be pulled. (Guess who owns PayPal ).

I hope you get it sooner than later .