That is not fair Yael, you shouldnt feel bad at all, she should feel bad for misleading information.

Worn = just that, a bit tired/stressed looking... maybe washed one or two too many times

But a hole is a HOLE, to me this is a completely different concept to "worn". I would leave neg feedback hun, if not for any other sake but to ensure she doesnt advertise "holes" as "worn" for the next poor person who buys off her.