sorry im not saying what you did was wrong here at all if it were me id be peeved off too but just from personal experience sometimes the messages you send dont go to the my ebay section but straight to email inbox and i have a seller and i never recieved a thing from the and they left me neg feedback but turns out the email i set up with on ebay (through yahoo) doesnt actually recieve emails from ebay it gets caught in the filter thingy