I think the rest of your post is quite harsh TBH. I can understand that there are pushy parents out there. But I think most of us are just trying to do the right thing by our children for now and for the future.
I guess it does sound a bit harsh - but speaking from someone with an IQ of 146 and all the myriad of problems that go with that - I'm doing the best I can. I'm sorry.

And go private education - the Government schools wont cut the mustard. Sorry in advance to all the pro-Government school people.