I understand! Sounds like my mothers group! When all our babies were about 3 months old they were discussing which private schools their babies were on the waiting lists for - they're mostly professional mums and I dont know, I dont really fit in anymore - when we were all shellshocked with newborns there was no social divide, but I feel like I've got nothing to say to them anymore... and when they found out from facebook I was only 21 one of them quite loudly 'outed' me and everyone turned to look at me like I'd suddenly sprouted a 3rd arm!

A friend of mine goes to a playgroup where she pays $5 and there's a 'teacher' who does activities and music and dance with the children, then they have tea, coffee and bickies while the children play with the toys so the mums can have some chit-chat time. Its run by Vinnies I think, I'm not 100% sure. Its in sydney also, and sadly as I dont drive its too impractical for me to go to, otherwise I'd be there with bells on!