i agree with all the previous posts... i just want my kids to be true to themselves and to others too.. honesty and respect for me is the biggest at the moment with a 9 yr old n 8 yr old.. manners i instilled at very young ages so i dont have a porb with that at all for all 3 boys no please,thank u,excuse me, sorry etc... then they will not get anything without it.. n they believe me lol!!