Hey hun. I have an ex that sounds very much like yours. He never physically abused me but everything else he did. I feel bad for that girl but hun, if it were my ex, its just not worth the risk. Theres chances that if you contact that girl, she wouldnt listen anyway.. i had everyone telling me how bad my ex was but i wouldnt listen.. i had to find out for myself. So it may be the same for that girl. Hopefully she too will find the light too, but i guess you have to think about whats most important in your life now and protect that first, before someone you dont know, iykwim.
Hun as horrible as it is to worry about someone else getting hurt and abused in the end it is not your issue she is a noone to you and you risk him finding you and your family and the rollarcoaster of fear starts again.
Do not do anything, even sending snail mail and posting from a different suburb he will know it was you. Don't put you or your family at risk.
My ex sounds very much like yours... it takes a long time to get over a relationship like that! I know I would also feel the same if my ex moved back to the area I live in and started seeing someone. But you know what.. I think it is also best to leave it. I dont think she would believe you, new love is blinding and it would create far more problems for you and your family than its worth. I was told when I started seeing my ex and I saw plenty of signs but chose to ignore them!
I will admit I do still google / fb my ex every so often to see where he is.. I know I shouldnt but it sometimes get the best of me and I have to check. I also feel better knowing he is no where near me!
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