Can you forgive and forget ?

[jellybean88]

I can forgive yes

But I think forgetting and moving on depend on how much closure I get and how traumatic it was

[dinky]

I can forgive a lot of things and usually do....forgetting is a whole other issue. Although its something that I never bring up again, its always in the back of my mind to protect myself.
I have tried to do this forgive and forget stuff for years, and hey, it has worked for ages, but now I find that I have a lot of deep issues that I have never really dealt with and its really hard to move on to the future without doing that!