I'm due to wash the dye out of my hair, so I'll be back later. But I was discussing this very issue with my mum yesterday- people seem to want everything in the world, but refuse to take responsibility for their own desicions, and the consequences of them. We live in a 'nanny state' which is reiforced by everyone blaming someone or something else for every little thing, and not taking ownership for anything and then often using ignorance as an excuse. I hate to say, but in this day and age ignorance can not be used an excuse for much- if you don't know the consequences of your actions, it is responsibility to research and consider them fully before you make a desicion (given, of course, that the situation allows you the time to do that).