hmm this is a good thread

we both share Christian values
being a part of something bigger than ourselves
being outward looking and not focusing everything on oursleves
faithfullness ( i mean this in being faithful in position you are put in, like being reliable)
kindness
giving
our parenting styles as well as discussing and coming to a common agreement if we do disagree on anything to do with parenting
ideas on pregnancy and birth (lol thats very important to me!)

we do share our values and I find it to be sooooo important I am very lucky in that regard as alhough we certainly don't agree on everything all the time all of our important values are shared