I really hate confrontation and i have this annoying need to make other people happy so i am quick to forgive and forget and always end up being burnt again.

One of these people is blocked on my FB and i don't have her number and she doesn't have mine though she knows where i live and where i work and has been known to just show up. The last time i saw her i told her i was busy and snobbed her off but from my dreams i feel like she is going to try really hard to get back into my life.

Another i haven't seen in about 2 years, since my DD was born we had a massive falling out but again in my dreams she contacts me. She isn't blocked on FB so maybe i will just do it so i dont get any unwanted messages/emails.

Then the last only talks to me when it is convenient for her, i've been told by a mutual friend that she thinks we will be friends again and going by dreams ive been having its a possibility. It starts by her coming to me either by text/call or email and apologising and as usual i say "all is forgiven".

These 3 people i don't want to talk to, i don't want to see and really don't need them in my life. I just need to learn how to be strong and say NO. I've told DP especially with the last that no matter what i won't change my mind. I need to protect myself and i need to think of my kid/s.