Hun, I used to be like that with my DF. I now know that I was acting out of insecurity. He's got 3 kids from a previous r'ship, and I constantly used to ask if he loved me (like I was worried that he loved the kids more than me and I was the fourth in line, lol). If he didn't txt, he didn't care. If he sounded grumpy or just flat on the phone, he didn't love me anymore, etc. Even if he was giving me a kiss goodbye and it was a quick kiss, I would say to him, 'do it like you mean it'!! Half the time he did the 'quick' kisses when we were in front of the kids and he was all embarrassed. These days I don't ask anymore because he's proven to me time and time again that he loves me as much as a person CAN be loved. It only took about 4 years of me asking if he loved me though!