Hmm I think tbh that you are currently seeing things as one sided...there is no give without take, crisis without blessing and support without challenge. I think it's great that you care so much about your firiends...but what you see is just your perception of their lives. It could be based upon things that they say but again a lot of things can be biased when taling to friends about situations.

What i'm trying to say is that their lives aren't "worse" than yours...they may be struggling in certain areas but thats only so that they can gain strengths in those areas kwim? They're infact being given a gift.

Thats what I believe anyway I hope this is coming out right...I think you sound like a really great friend, really compassionate and caring x